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Hard is Not Bad: A Journey of Grace and Growth in Parenthood – Abbie Halberstadt, Part 3

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Looking for a fresh perspective on the difficulties of parenthood? Yvette Hampton engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Abbie Halberstadt (M Is For Mama), author of Hard Is Not the Same Thing as Bad: The Perspective Shift That Could Completely Change the Way You Mother. In this episode, Abbie shares her personal struggles as a mother and how she overcame them with a shift in perspective. From dealing with toddler tantrums to finding grace amidst challenging circumstances, this episode offers practical tips, biblical wisdom, and heartfelt stories that all parents can relate to. Find inspiration, encouragement, and a renewed sense of purpose in your role as a parent.

Hard is Not Bad: A Journey of Grace and Growth in Parenthood – Abbie Halberstadt, Part 3

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Discussion Questions For the Series:

  1. How does Abbie challenge the belief that motherhood is martyrdom and giving up everything? Do you agree or disagree with her perspective?
  2. What do you think Abbie means when she says that being a competent and excellent secular mom is not enough? How does the Holy Spirit and meaningful motivation play a role in motherhood?
  3. Abbie emphasizes that the purpose of motherhood should be about serving and glorifying God. How can mothers incorporate this perspective into their daily lives?
  4. Abbie mentions that the fruit of conviction in one's heart will bear fruit, even if the timing and method are uncertain. Can you share any personal experiences where you saw this played out in your own life?
  5. Abbie draws parallels between coming out of a season of ease and going through difficulty cyclically, comparing it to a blacksmith's curing process. How do you interpret this analogy? Can you relate to this experience in your own life?
  6. Abbie discusses society's focus on ease and fun, often at the expense of relationships and family. Do you agree with her assessment? How do you see this playing out in today's culture?
  7. Abbie acknowledges the challenges of fulfilling various roles, such as being a parent, spouse, family member, and friend. How do you navigate these challenges in your own life? What strategies do you employ to find balance and maintain your well-being?
  8. Abbie emphasizes that just because something is difficult, it does not mean it is bad. How do you approach difficult situations or tasks in your life? Do you find it challenging to shift your perspective and embrace the difficulties as opportunities for growth?
  9. Abbie discusses the importance of seeking and accepting help when struggling, as well as the tendency to dwell in our struggles instead of utilizing the help that is available. Can you think of a time when you resisted asking for help, and how did that impact your situation? How can we overcome the fear or reluctance to ask for help?
  10. Abbie shares her personal experience of initially not finding parenthood enjoyable, but how it has since brought her much joy. Can you relate to this experience? How have your perspectives on parenthood or challenging situations evolved over time?


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